Everyone Is a Teacher
- Cole Fannin
- Jul 14
- 4 min read
There’s a quiet strength in being teachable — not just by those we admire, but by everyone. In today’s world, this kind of humility is becoming increasingly rare. We live in a culture where having a different opinion can make you an enemy. Where disagreement is often met with instant dismissal or outright hostility. Where if someone doesn’t think like you, talk like you, or share your values, they’re written off without a second thought.
This mindset isn’t just unhelpful — it’s dangerous. As a society, we are stunting our own growth by refusing to engage with perspectives that challenge us. We surround ourselves with voices that echo our own and filter out anyone who makes us uncomfortable. But discomfort is often the beginning of wisdom. Growth doesn’t happen in echo chambers. It happens when you allow friction, when you allow yourself to be exposed to something new — even if it rubs you the wrong way at first.
We’ve created a habit of judging the messenger instead of evaluating the message. We cancel people over single soundbites without listening to the full conversation. We label others quickly, not because we understand them, but because it’s easier than taking the time to try. And in doing so, we miss out on valuable lessons that could be shaping us into something sharper, stronger, and more well-rounded. If we approached life with the mindset that everyone is a teacher, we’d unlock a level of personal and collective growth that right now, we’re denying ourselves.
Take someone like David Goggins. He’s a polarizing figure. Some admire him, others think he takes things too far — maybe even dangerously far. Running over 100 miles on fractured feet. Doing ultra-marathons with kidney failure. Training like a man possessed. His approach to life isn’t for everyone. Most people don’t want to be that extreme, and that’s fair. But even if you think his methods are crazy, you cannot deny the lesson he teaches about the limits of human potential. If he can go that far, then what excuse do you have for not pushing just a little harder on your morning run? What excuse do you have for quitting the moment something becomes uncomfortable? If you are unfamiliar with David Goggins, we would recommend reading his book "Can't Hurt Me". It gives great insight into how his mind works and shows just how far the human body can be pushed. You don’t have to become him to be inspired by what he reveals about what the body and mind are capable of. That’s the essence of this mindset: extract the value, leave the rest.
And this doesn’t just apply to high-performance athletes or motivational figures. It applies to the people you brush shoulders with every day. Maybe your coworker is socially awkward or too talkative, but she’s built strong relationships with everyone in the office. Maybe your father is emotionally distant but has worked hard for decades without asking for credit. Maybe a former friend betrayed your trust, but in doing so, helped you learn what kind of boundaries you need to protect your peace. Even the people who hurt us can be teachers — not because of their wisdom, but because of the clarity they bring.
The world would be a completely different place if we all lived this way. If instead of reacting with hate or pride, we responded with curiosity. If we actually listened to people who were different from us, even when it was uncomfortable. Imagine how many innovative ideas, solutions, and breakthroughs we’ve delayed as a society just because the people who carried those ideas didn’t “fit the mold.” If we had the courage to set ego aside and seek truth wherever it hides, we’d be years — maybe even decades — more advanced than we are now.
We often say things like “iron sharpens iron,” but then we avoid anything with an edge. We avoid conflict. We avoid challenge. We avoid people who make us question ourselves. But a warrior doesn’t run from resistance — he leans into it. Not everything needs to be agreed with. Not every person you learn from has to be your role model. Sometimes, the best lessons come from people you fundamentally disagree with. The point is not to adopt their views. The point is to expand your perspective.
This is a call to shift your mindset. To approach the world like a student of life. To see lessons where others see only threats. To stop waiting for the “right” teacher and start realizing that every person you meet carries a piece of truth — a lesson, a story, a strategy, a failure, a breakthrough. Your job is to listen, to evaluate, to extract what’s useful, and to discard what isn’t — but never to close yourself off completely. That’s what weak people do. And you weren’t made to be weak.
The warrior mindset is not just about physical strength or mental toughness. It’s about humility. The kind that says: “I don’t know everything, and I can learn something from everyone.”
If you really want to grow — not just succeed, not just appear smart or powerful, but grow — you have to drop the arrogance. You have to stop pretending you’re above being wrong. You have to stop filtering the world through your comfort zone. The moment you choose to listen before judging, to learn before labeling, you start becoming the kind of person this world desperately needs.
Everyone is a teacher.
And the warrior?
He stays teachable.
Live Like A Warrior





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